SLifehub Forum Rules

Welcome to the SLifehub Forum

The SLifehub Forum is a friendly place where you can be open and honest with like-minded adults, have some fun, and share advice and tips. The SLifehub Forum is for genuine, non-judgemental, sex positive chat. We welcome everyone over the age of 18 of all genders, sexualities, abilities, races, and religions, and do not tolerate disrespectful commentary.

The SLifehub Forum is not a place for arranging hook-ups, sex chat, cyber sex or other personal solicitations. It is not a place to post links to pornography or erotica, or a place for seeking out material you may use to masturbate.

The SLifehub Forum is moderated to ensure the rules are respected. We will edit or remove content and accounts at our discretion.

Forum Etiquette & Behaviour

The SLifehub Forum is a friendly, welcoming place where people can feel comfortable and confident. Debate and discussion are encouraged! Personal attacks are not. Similarly we do not allow inflammatory behaviour (“trolling”), kink shaming, or cyberbullying. Attacking other forum members or their lifestyles is not permitted.

Please use the flag system to report posts which are against the rules. Don’t engage in mob mentality and gang up on a member who has broken the rules – just use the flags and a moderator will take care of the rest.

SLifehub Forum posts should be relevant, informative. Similarly, for accessibility reasons, writing an entire post primarily in ALL CAPS, bold, header font (html etc), underlined, or italic is not allowed.

Before posting a new topic, have a search for similar topics. If there was a recent discussion on the topic you’d like to raise, please post in that topic rather than starting a new one.

When posting, be sure to use the most relevant subforum and stay on topic. Use the topic title to clearly delineate the topic’s topic so other members can easily join in.

Example: A title like “Thoughts on this?” is unhelpful and unclear – use a title like “Who has tried anal fisting?” instead.

Do not have private conversations in public – this includes flirting, ‘inside jokes’, and graphic public displays of affection.

When sharing video clips from YouTube or other video sites, make sure they are radio friendly and would be acceptable before the watershed. Link to clips including violence, drug use, nudity etc. are not allowed. Make sure the video thumbnail is appropriate, too.

Content Restrictions

Personal Details

Do not share personal contact details, including but not limited to:

  • Email addresses
  • Phone numbers
  • Social media accounts (such as Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat, Facebook)
  • Any other offsite contact information

General Posts

1. Do not use unnecessary expletives

2. The SLifehub Forum automatically filters out some offensive words – use this filter as guidance around language that should be avoided. Do not try to bypass the filters.

3. Do not use offensive, unnecessarily graphic/erotic, derogatory or inappropriate language

Examples
  • Example of too graphic/erotic: I rammed my asshole with my new anal dong last night – I can still feel myself throbbing and gaping as I write this. I smothered myself, the toy and my whole house in lube and squeezed it in, feeling my a-hole stretch over the tip.
  • Example of just right: I tried out my new anal dildo last night – it was amazing!! I made sure I used plenty of water-based lube and was impressed by how stretched it made me feel.
  • Example of derogatory terms: Face fuck, cum dumpster, calling someone a hole

4. Do not post erotica or graphic fantasies learn what erotica is here

5. Do not post harassment or solicitations – eg. asking for gifts, photos, contact details, explicit personal descriptions and excessive information

Excessive information examples:
  • Example of just right: “That sounds like something I would like, what were the vibrations like?”
  • Example of inappropriate: “That sounds hot – tell me more”

6. Do not single out specific Forum members as arousing you

Example
  • Example: “@xxx’s stories make me so hard”

7. Do not single out minority groups (including races, ethnicities, sexualities or gender identities) as arousing you or being part of your fantasy. Real life is not like pornography and real people deserve more respect than being reduced to fantasy fulfilment

8. Do not flirt with other Forum members

9. Do not post graphic or offensive images (check out the full image posting rules here). All images you post,including profile and banner images, must abide by these rules.

Other Restricted Content

  • Do not post, link to or reference nonconsensual, illegal or underage content. Remember at SLifehub, life starts at 18 years-old. Any posts referring to sex acts before this age will be deleted.
  • Do not post or link to sex negative content
  • Do not post audio clips
  • Do not post advertisements, comment, or links to other adult retailers and competitors
  • Do not post spam (learn what spam is here)
What classes as a competitor?

A store that sells similar items to the SLifehub website

Posts that reference illegal behaviour

If you post content that suggests you have taken part in – or been complicit in – behaviour or activities that are illegal, SLifehub Limited may pass your details on to the police or other authorities as appropriate.

This includes reference to activity of a sexual nature that endangers vulnerable people, minors or takes place without consent.

Consequences

If one of your posts breaks the rules, other Forum members may flag your post.

A moderator will review the flags on your post. If the moderator confirms your post does indeed break the rules, the moderator may message you to let you know. This message will be an “Official Warning”.

Repeated infractions may result in removal of your posting privileges and/or the suspension of your SLifehub Forum account.

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